Where are you going to have sex?

If you are capable to define what you want and need you will be able to enlighten your partner into the right path. Everyone has different needs and inclinations, you will be able to find a bit of who you are on the sexual files and you will also identify your partner or someone from your past on them. The important thing when looking at these sexual styles is not to try to figure out which sexual type you or someone is but rather to use this knowledge to improve your sexual relationships.

Have fun placing yourself on one of these descriptions:

1. Traffic Cop:

a. Outside of the room: typical control freak, feeling obligated to tell others what is 'right' and what is "wrong". They are often critical, demanding, and always giving orders. They can be very picky, impatient and judgmental; constantly giving advice, "mothering" others

b. Inside the room: you will get so many directions and instructions on what he/she likes and doesn't like. Will be asking you to do exactly the way they do it. You feel pressured, controlled and inadequate every time

2. Sexual Beast:

a. Outside of the room: talks loudly and dirty. Do not care if they are liked or not. Cynical and temperamental, easily explode into anger when their authority or intelligence is challenged. They confuse aggression and chaos with passion and spontaneity.

b. Inside the room: you are not sure whether you are being loved or devoured. His/her panting, grabbing, slapping, scratching, biting, pushing, pulling and bestial noises or "dirty talk" reduces the sex act to its very basic crude level.

3. The Martyr:

a. Outside of the room: They are always telling "poor me" stories, blaming others. Never had satisfying experiences and feel used and taken advantage of all the time.

b. Inside the room: you sense that "something" in not right but however much you ask, he/she will never tell.

a. Outside of the room: hates being told what to do, usually very rational and reasonable and take themselves seriously. They are warm and outgoing but deep inside try to avoid getting real close to anyone.

b. Inside the room: You are left feeling controlled, neglected, desperate and angry; you'll have heard all kinds of logical explanations as to how the mood, timing and the place is just not right.

5. The Glutton:

a. Outside the bedroom: have low tolerance to pain or suffering and are often prone to addictive behaviors. They get completely lost in sensation oblivious of the people and everything around them.

b. Inside the bedroom: you get the feeling you are just a toy for their pleasure. They do not pay attention to your feelings and you feel unimportant, unloved and angry at being used.

6. The Performer:

a. Outside the bedroom: enthusiastic. Everything and everyone is always fantastic, wonderful, amazing, fabulous, great, brilliant etc. Tend to be so anxious about intimacy that they often scare others away.

b. Inside the bedroom: you feel on a show, they make a lot of noise and they will do this and do that, frequently changing positions. Their "pleasure" seems so exaggerated.

7. The Idealist:

a. Outside the bedroom: sensitive, powerful, spiritual and very intelligent. They desperately want fairness and goodness for everyone and in everything because their past experiences have been the opposite.

b. Inside the bedroom: prepared to enjoy it not once but twice: when you hear the great and wonderful benefits of sex and again after when you hear a recounting of the just magical experience. You find yourself pressured to perform to similar or higher standards, just to keep up.

8. The Pleaser:

a. Outside the bedroom: usually sweet, cheerful, enthusiastic and nice to everyone. The have a tendency to "love" people they can pity and rescue. Can be manipulated very easily because they can not say no.

b. Inside the bedroom: You can feel their desperation, they will make you feel amazing till their fear of pleasing you takes over. At certain point you may feel selfish and guilty.

9. The Corpse:

a. Outside the bedroom: an expert at repressing his/her feelings; appear cool, calm and collected on the outside but deep inside they are anxious, worried, and fearful. They don't easily forgive and never forget.

b. Inside the bedroom: They never show emotion or say a word before, during or after sex. It’s up to you to guess how they are feeling or if they like sex with you.

10. The Tease:

a. Outside the bedroom: love to advertise how "super-sexy" they - they dress and walk the part. Have a habit of name-dropping or mentioning their connections to famous, rich and powerful people. They are very competitive with members of the same sex and are usually very jealous and possessive people.

b. Inside the bedroom: comes on very strong and aggressive, turning you on and driving you crazy with his/her act; as soon as there is a possibility that sex might actually take place, the sexy, hot and wild image disappears.

There is no "right" or "wrong" way of making love. Learning specific techniques is NOT enough; you need to know the interplay between the sexes that is sufficient to evoke a deep connection and smoldering passion.

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